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 A very good day to my fellow guests  and toastmasters. How apt the topic is to us in our life. We won’t be here today if we are not  hardworking and willing to go that extra mile in becoming a better speaker. Do you agree with me? We want to be a better communicator  in our daily life to our mirror image. That is you all, the audience’s  At this juncture, my past experience comes flashing through my mind. I still vividly remember 5 decades ago during my primary school around 11 or 12 years old.I was a playful and obstreperous boy.Who was in the last class all that while. As I had no zeal to study and progress since I was in comfort zone. Let me ask the audience a question! How many siblings do you have  in your family? Two, 4 or 8 max. In my family I have 16 siblings and I am the number 15th.  Of course One dad and one mom! You can imagine -the amount of pampering I would have got. If you are in my shoes, will you study? Surely  most of you won’t...

  Don’t blame people for disappointing you. Blame yourself for expecting  too much from them. When you hear something, When you see something, If it didn’t match. Then believe your eyes.

1. Praise should be done behind the person. Criticism should be done in front the person.   2. A reader today is  a leader tomorrow 

 What  Susie  Says  Of  Sally, Says More Of  Susie  Than  Of  Sally In our daily life, we may have experienced the above saying. Don't you agree with me? Many times we would have thought if our friend does change on something which we don't like. It can be the dressing or habits in him or her. However, if we analyze the complaint which we made of the friend, it is that of our friends' weaknesses which we are seeing through our complaints about them. Let me relate the above saying in my life. I find irritating the smoking habit of my friend. I  advise him to stop smoking for better health. Being a smoker myself, it is more affecting me than him. However, I use him as Sally to mean Susie in my life of that habit to the topic when we talk good or bad of another. It is reflecting on what in us rather than in them. Now, let me ask the readers, it has happened even in your life too? Yes, that is why we can relate to the above saying.

When u go for a battle - u r a soldier- so be ready to meet the enemy and fight- in the process some soldiers will succumb to the battle- that is part and parcel of soldiers - to defend the innocent - by sacrificing their life - if need arises.