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A Good Mentee

 He touched me with his humbleness and respect for the teacher. Who taught and guided him at the beginning of his career in the field of Surgery. He was keeping in touch those 10 years, though he had left the primary hospital, where he started his journey in the field of Surgery. Finally he was able to thank me at the district hospital Bukit Mertajam, where he started his baby step in the field of surgery. It brought tears of joy in my eyes. I saw him as a baby in the academic field . He has grown to a robust and matured adult along the academic journey. I wish him , all the best from my bottom of heart for his future endeavours in the field of ENT.πŸŒΉπŸ™πŸΌπŸ™‡πŸ½πŸ˜

EMPATHY IS RARE COMMODITY

  Today when I went to review a patient inward. Incidentally, I saw a few nurses with a junior doctor was rushing to attend to a semiconscious elderly patient. At the side of the patient was a worried man. I assume her husband was standing. I was shocked to see the nurses and the junior doctor chasing the distressed man in a crude and abusive way with no empathy for him as if he got no worth. He was pleading with them of the wife’s condition in tears. No one has the soft skill to attend and counsel the distressed man or walk him out. He was in tears and upset. It was saddening to be and see the pathetic situation. I had to guide the distressed man out to console while the medical personnel resuscitating the patient, I agree we want to safe life but not to the extent of forgetting the living which is next to the patient with feelings and attachment towards the patient. Perhaps the patient who we are resuscitating may not pull through. But the husband or loved ones will carry the pai...

HARD-WORK CHANGES AN ORDINARY MAN TO EXTRA ORDINARY DESTINY

   A very good day to my fellow guests and toastmasters. How apt the topic is to us in our life. We won’t be here today if we are not hardworking and willing to go that extra mile in becoming a better speaker. Do you agree with me? We want to be a better communicator in our daily life to our mirror image. That is you all, the audience’s  At this juncture, my experience comes flashing through my mind. I still vividly remember 5 decades ago during my primary school around 11 or 12 years old. I was a playful and obstreperous boy. Who was in the last class all that while? As I had no zeal to study and progress since I was in my comfort zone. Let me ask the audience a question! How many siblings do you have in your family? Two, 4 or 8 max. In my family, I have 16 siblings and I am the number 15th.  Of course One dad and one mom! You can imagine -the amount of pampering I would have got. If you are in my shoes, will you study? Surely most of you won’t, like me. My life ch...