My Brothers,My Parents

 As I was driving today, I  heard in Raaga channel of the advertisement of Father's Day.

It suddenly took me to deep thoughts to my past life journey.

I lost my parents when I need them most at mid-teenage.

I had 2 brothers took the role of being my parents.

One brother who is firm and strict like a dad.

Who actually moulded me to be who I am to be in this life journey 

When I was born,he gave my name.

When a kid ,he disciplined me.

As a teenager he encouraged me in sports

In my career path,he showed me the way to achieve my dream of becoming a dr and had confident in me,even I was a mediocre student.

In spiritual journey, he taught me to pray the way I want( rosary).

In finance ,he taught me how to be frugal and save money for the future.

In my finding other half,he was the person who gave a go ahead and assist in the marriage.

As young struggling professional with highly career oriented, he gave finance when I need badly to achieve my dream.

As now thinking back he filled the void of father in me as the Sanatana Dharma says the brother becomes the dad,the moment the old father exit living.

I felt the ache and bliss in my heart as I recall the Godly given dad of mine ,when my dad being taken at young age of mine.

He deserves my Father's Day wish from my bottom of my heart, now thinking of him.

The other brother was like mother to me.As everything I ask ,I get it without any questions.

Looking back in my life ,I realised the Infinite has blessed me with this wonderful souls in brother form to replace void of parents,I had.

May my Lord Jesus Christ bless them and their generations for the sacrifices they didd for the growth of others in this earth with selflessness.

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