Pet Bereavement.

 Request:-

We have decided not to have pets anymore. 

Everyone sad at home as Lucky has been with us for past 15 years. 

Regards


Reply:-

Give time and think it over,as give time those grieving to come to understand the reality of life cycle  

During grieving phase the emotion will be topsy turvy and roller coaster effect. 

Let them settle with time to the lost of the pet.

I opine your wife need a good companion at current times with retirement and spending time home alone.

If a pet died suddenly at younger age that grieving and pain is a different matter. I agree getting another one to soon will cause unnecessary anxiety. 

However Lucky is a ur family member As such we human had accepted it has our part of family.It is bcos of the agape love they give us n in return don't expect anything from us.

However with a clause that they will live with us for around 10 to 12 yrs. Your Lucky had stayed much longer even with it's painful old age; as much it can with the loce ones of it. 

Finally when time to go, it left you all with a wonderful memory and praying that her mom will give another of his breed a chance to live with her and perhaps with that a returning chance back to her with a younger body to spend another 15 yrs.

So one must learn to let go and move on.As we are born, we have to die one day- that applies to us too.

Lucky prepared and taught u all that we are mortal and awaken on it.

Learn to detach as we get attach as that is the Truth Of Life.

The real good deeds one can do the tothe demised aged pet like Lucky is, getting another pet which give the soul of Lucky to life through the new puppy.

As humans are generally given a lifespan of 60 to 80yrs

Dogs are give a lifespan of 10 to 12yrs(Lucky loved u all so much that it endured the pain of old age to maximise it's living with u all. It knows  that is the maximum living time that it can spend with body which given to it by the Creator.

Now it want to come back to ur family, it needs a new body to live another 15 yrs with your wife.

If she love it to return back to her, she need to give another pet to enter her house to give it's agape love.If not that poor soul have no chance to come back.

This is my humble insight of pets soul through my spiritual journey which I am sharing with u.

Meantime let the grieving settle down.

May Truth guide the grieving during this difficult time and I can see the beautiful soul of Lucky jumping and rolling with happiness in the other plane for escaping from that aged physical body of it and hoping to return with her new body back to the mom- who loved her most.

The Choice is yours!

Om Tat Sat



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