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The Nun In My Life

I had an old nun more than 87years old very much  attached  to me 30 years back.Till she became as one of my family members. Whenever  I go to church at Bukit Mertajam.She so attach with me that she forgets all who waiting to see her n just follow me out for breakfast. I had to drop her back after breakfast at the nun’s house. She considers  me as her God Son, everything she will tell me and anything she get pass it to me , even if I say I don’t need it and I have ample. After she became much older almost more than 90 years old.She was sent to Melaka , elderly nuns place to stay. I use to visit her n call her most of the time.However with time she came senile n lost her memory. But  she can only remember my name and ask for me. She died around 8 to 10years back.Even in a funeral they mentioned my name as her God Son. Her name is Sister Felicia - I still miss her for the love she showed to me , even made my wife jealous. 😅 I learned and gained more from her than...

RESPOND TO MANY WHO QUERY THE VACCINATION PROGRAM

Almost more than a Billion world population have  got vaccinated,  didn’t die. Maybe thousand die direct or indirect cause of vaccination in the world due to vaccination. Most of them died because  they already have some coexisting heart or lung problems. If not vaccinated. Please see at India currently and the world, how many millions of peoples dying of the Covid Infection  and billion admitted  due to the infection. So if vaccinated chances of getting infected and dying is less than 10% and dying due to vaccination is less than 1% If not vaccinated one  have chance of getting infected is more than 50% n Dying due to the infection is more than 30%. So the choice is YOURS.

Embarking On Surgical Operation

Always have  a plan,  what is the probable diagnosis prior to venture into operation. Have an idea of anticipated operation based on the probable diagnosis. If both clique well; it goes as planned. If it doesn’t , think the best operation based on the intraoperative  findings. That is the best way to prepare  prior to any  operation.

Retirement

 It is like travelling in the same coach n having a good feeling. Suddenly  the  station have reached , the retiree need to alight. As rest of them in the coach continue their journey. Both the one who alighted and the rest will have memory to cherish, till they meet again.

MAKE YOUR DREAM A REALITY

Keep ur focus on ur dream. Before u realise. That dream, will come a reality. Which you will live in. When  u turn back and see. Time would have flown  And memories will be nearby. By then, You will be the master of  Your own destiny .

Training Academic Children

 Hi Guys and girls in the group. Those who are in 3rd year masters, do u all have done complete lap cholecystectomy with assistance/supervision by ur seniors?🧐 That is one of the requirements right 🧐 I let a masters student attach with us for 6/12 to do that n also other bowel surgeries like Anterior Resection n Lap PGU. By the way she already done lap cholecystectomy by herself under strict supervision. How about at ur centre 🧐 I understand it is really  texting for the master surgeons who teaching, but that is the way in my opinion have to come down to the ground and teach. By doing that I hope my own academic children who are always dear to my heart will be taught by others of the skills. However the bypass academic children, who haven’t experience the love and care of academic dad. I encompass them as my child and teach them. As I believe by teaching others , somewhere my own academic children will be blessed with similar care n teaching .🙏🏼🌹🙇🏽

RECIPE OF SUCCESSFUL MARRIAGE

We as a couple have our own sporting activities. My wife like shopping activities and I like trekking and diving. Though we train together for hours in a week at gym, recreation club and our residence field. However when coming to do the adventure sports.We do it separately.As we believe each has to pursue their own dreams with no interruptions by the other. As such my wife will go on shopping spree on designated day by going to many malls up and down without missing any shops the whole day. Myself will go for high altitude mountain trekking at Nepal or diving at East Coast of Malaysia or around South East Asian countries. We both come back tired after our sporting pursue.She comes home excited after spending few ringgits though visited many malls and shops. I come home tired and satisfied that reached the peak of a mountain and spend few minutes at the peak.Beside able to dive for few minutes to watch the beauty below the sea. At the end both of us pursue our our own interest though w...

Glossophobia

  Are the audiences watching me Are they staring at me Will they eat me I am really scared A very good day to my    fellow toastmasters n dear guests Don’t we have this feeling when we are called to give a speech  🧐 I exactly have that now! Even though I have given umpteen number of speeches in my work life. Why is it so 🧐 I opine -It is Bcos of our self awareness and we want to be perfect.   How    to overcome this fear of public speaking 🧐 1.Master your self talk  Control the negative chatter of psyche and develop positive vibes of your talk in mental chatter 2.Interact with the audiences  Develop a two way communication rather than one way by getting the audiences participate in the speech. 3.Accept Flaws No one is perfect and only the flaws in us will act like stepping stone to be a better speaker and at times give us    the originality to our speech.  Bcos each one of us are unique and we have that beauty of expressing ...

INTERCULTURAL EDUCATION

 Need intercultural education at current times. As  during baby boomers school time . All races are poor and live together at same area. Beside we were self educated by going into Uncle Rahman house having breakfast , coming out  through Uncle Chong house after lunch and go back to Uncle Raman house for dinner.Then return to own house to sleep. But nowadays everyone is segregated due to  economic boom, race superiority and religious intolerance created by the politicians. At the same time many forgetting unity in diversity brings beauty and vibrant to the country. As such at current times tolerance and mutual respect should be taught in the school to the millennial generation .

MISINTERPRETATION OF RELIGION AND POLITICS

 Religion and Politic meant to unite the humans to feel the peaceful Universal God. However most of the time the humans who handles both bring an opposite outcome. If you analyse every religion.There is almost similarity in every religion, which is believing in the INFINITE OR SUPREME as they are not sure of the BEYOND. The ritual they conduct in a religion will be identical to that religious believers. But if one look macroscopically at the method of ritual, the purpose will be same in every religion. However every believers of that religion will tell theirs are better and superior than others. Why So? It is pure human EGO n SUPERIORITY complex inborn in them. What happens then ? Fighting, killing and destroying everything in the name of PEACEFUL UNIVERSAL GOD. Now let us peep into politics.Even politics meant to unify and benefit the citizens by good policies which will bring Universal Peace. What politicians does? They use the politics to divide in every spectrum of human life. ...

KNOWLEDGE IS OCEAN

 Enhancing knowledge  is self  and institutions effort. As humorist at times make us laugh by our deficient of knowledge.When we can’t answer a simple and common questions. As knowledge is ocean n what we know is a drop in ocean. Even we are at their shoes in certain abilities in the testing of knowledge. So it is sometimes good to loosen oneself and have a hearty laugh on jokes created based on IQ. As laughter is the best medicine .

Leader or Boss

 As HOD , I always opine it is a tough seat to sit on.  Bcos I have to do my clinical work which I am passionate about. At the same time do the administration which brings best benefit to my working colleagues and to the establishment. Beside I let my team to move along with me and not behind me. If any credit to work , I pass to my team rather than taking it myself. However if any mistake of work, I take the responsibility for the mistake rather than my team. Different working environments gives one a better exposure. Most importantly let  u decide what type of leader u want to be in future. In life everyday is a learning experience. From the good colleagues, u learn what good to do. From the bad colleagues, u learn what not to do. Finally you plan the course of life journey the way you want it to be.